WINTERBOURNE HOUSE AND GARDEN
BIRMINGHAM
A GOOSE AMONG SWANS
Norman Rowland Gale was
a minor British poet and storyteller who is seemingly neglected in recent times
or ‘out of fashion’; he is often associated with the fringes of the eighteen-nineties
and the young aesthetes such as Beardsley, Richard Le Gallienne; John Lane and
the Bodley Head publishing house (two of his poems appeared in volume 2 and
volume 5 of The Yellow Book) where he is often mentioned in passing; a man
‘possessed of a pretty gift for turning melodious flowing verse of no
originality’ and a familiar figure to many who was ‘rather a big, florid man,
who wrote discreetly fleshly poems about pretty milkmaids, and apple-blossom,
and rustic junketings.’ (2). In the literary circles of what is often
termed the fin de siecle, Gale became quite well known as a poet writing in the
modern manner of Clare or Herrick and his books were widely sought after and
although he avoided town society as much as possible for he was a ‘passionate
lover of the country’, he became talked about and sought after for he was,
according to Arthur Warren of the Boston Herald, a ‘big, handsome, brown-eyed, brown-haired,
wholesome fellow, who gives himself no airs of “decadence” as the fashion is
with so many of the young literary men in town. Gale hates the town.’ (3)
He was born on
Young Norman was a
passionate lover of the countryside and a keen player of field sports and as a
poet his rustic verse delights in the joys of cricket, the charm and simplicity
of children and the beauty of young and lusty milkmaids. In fact, he became an
‘ardent sportsman. With rod or gun, foot-ball or cricket-bat, on the back of a
horse, or trudging along a Warwickshire road, he is in his best spirits.’ (7)
He collected first editions and was said to have a fine library of rare and
exquisite books but had to part with many, something he regretted dearly. When he was 18 Norman
Rowland Gale entered
Many literary works
describe Gale as being a schoolmaster at Rugby and Gale sees nothing wrong in
letting this stand uncorrected – ‘Gale lives at Rugby during term-time,
although he no longer teaches at the famous school.’ (9) The statement is
not quite true, he was a schoolmaster at Rugby, something he became soon after
leaving Oxford it seems, but not at the famous public school of Dr. Thomas
Arnold who was Headmaster of Rugby School from 1876-1886, in fact, ‘the only
school at which we know he taught was Oakfield Preparatory School just around
the corner. There are suggestions in correspondence, however, that he may also
have coached boys from
69 year old William
Frederick Gale and 57 year old Elizabeth can be found on the 1891 census living
in Ringstead Road, Lewisham; William is a ‘retired plumber’ and they have taken
in two boarders: Charles F Buckingham, aged 25 and born in
As a poet much of
Gale’s work can be seen as the usual sentimental Victorian slush about
childhood where many artists worshipped the cult of the child, the purity and
beauty, which to contemporary minds may seem inappropriate but to the Victorian
was perfectly innocent. Michael Seeney says that Gale’s love of and sympathy
for childhood was ‘qualities which, no doubt, made him an excellent teacher.’
He goes on to say that ‘I recognise the dangers in today’s climate of
suggesting that an adult male’s (especially a school teachers’) affection for
young people is entirely innocent, and perhaps it never can be. I have found
nothing to suggest that Gale took any more than a naïve delight in the presence
of young people.’ (15) I most definitely agree with Seeney’s opinion and
see nothing harmful in Gale’s charming, if sometimes mawkish verse, yet there
are those during his time who thought his poetry, some of which can verge on the
sensual or erotic, to be quite vulgar, as in this review from The Artist:
‘Norman Gale seems at present to be dead, dead as the second volume of
Gillman’s Coleridge. He has been and so is no more. So long as he was unknown
he fashioned for himself pretty verses, which never became poetry but were
worth reading all the same. With the printing of his first his first book, he
became famous, and the success and Mr. Le Galliene between them killed him. The
second volume of The Country Muse was a long fall from the first. With “Orchard
Songs” Mr. Gale committed suicide.’ The review goes on to say that ‘not only
has Mr. Gale’s verse become excessively bad, but he now thinks coarsely’. (16)
The reviewer is referring to poems such as The Shaded Pool which begins ‘The
virgins slipping from their robes, / the cheated stockings lean and long, / the
swift descending petticoat, / the breasts that heave because they ran, / the
rounded arms, the brilliant limbs, / the pretty necklaces of tan.’ (17)
One cannot deny the erotic imagery of such a poem with its ‘undraped girls so
wonder-sweet’ but I would not call it ‘course’. And again we find from the same
volume in the poem A Woman, the lines ‘she is velvet and scandal and lace / and
beautiful limbs’ (18) which to my ears ring as perfectly beautiful with
deep ‘fleshly’ sensuality. But perhaps the most well known poem of Gale’s to
suggest the sexual thrill of observing the sensual form of woman is his poem,
Cicely Bathing:
A rather pompous
article on Gale appeared in the illustrated monthly, Pearson’s magazine in 1896
which has a few interesting details on the poet whose ‘love of nature is the
mainspring of his songs, and to him sunshine serves as an unfailing stimulant’;
the article goes on to say that ‘according to Mr. Grant Allen, “this is an
urban age,” and it is remarkable, therefore, that a poet who sings of birds and
woodlands, of the loves of country folk, and of such pleasures as are called
Arcadian, should have established himself in the poetic ranks, and once more
brought rustic themes to the front amid applause. Mr. Gale would not desert
Warwickshire meadows for the isles of
All that need be said
of the poet’s personal history can be written down in a few words. He was born
in 1862. As soon as he left
His one venture in
prose, “A June Romance”, has brought him many friends, and it has again gone
out of print. As to his love of sport, is it not proved by his “Cricket Songs”?
The fact is, Mr. Gale is an adept in nearly all games, whether those that are
played in the house or those of the open air. The young men who desert the
national pastime for golf and tennis he has some vigorous remarks to make. All
sports that involve the suffering of dumb animals Mr. Gale shuns as he would
shun the plague, and he is never tired of trying to implant the creed of mercy
in both old and young listeners. Children he adores, and he does not yield to
Mrs. Marriott Watson in his love for cats. The former have inspired him to
write a book of songs, which have yet to be appear, and the latter have not
been altogether neglected by his pen. Mr. Andrew Lang, that inventor of felicitous
phrases, in calling Mr. Gale “a kind of Theocritus in flannels”, described him
to a nicety.’ (20)
Gale’s love of cats
led him to collaborate with various authors on several amusing publications for
the publishers, Raphael Tuck & Sons Ltd of
Hayes goes on to say
that ‘we both have worshipped the pure rest / of Arden’s gently sloping breast’
before ending with a melancholy flourish on the timeless nature of their verse
– ‘age will abate the lyric flame, / the grave’s dull tooth consume our name; /
but hap what may, / friend, we have captured fugitive / fine joys, whose music
will outlive / all the discordant world can give / or take away.’ (21)
The poem also appears in Hayes’ volume ‘The Vale of Arden’. Gale also published a
volume of verse titled ‘On Two Strings’ in 1894 with fellow poet, Robinson Kay
Leather (1865-1895) of University College, Liverpool, a rather pathetic
creature who in my opinion was a far greater chess player than he was a poet, (see
his ‘Verses’ published by Fisher Unwin.
On
In 1913 Gale published
a delightful little book called ‘Solitude’ which is a short essay upon the
charms of solitude in nature and it is the essence of Gale’s own feelings
towards the beauty of escaping to the countryside and immersing oneself in its
sensuous surroundings – ‘I have gone to Solitude for a better reading of earth;
I have gone in sorrow, I have gone in turmoil; I have known the pang of
convulsive truancy.’ (24) Gale achieves an almost spiritual
enlightenment with the solemnity of the countryside and looks upon trees, as in
fact do I, as having a distinct consciousness, a sentient nature; trees with which he has formed
unbreakable friendships.
In 1930 Norman Gale
left Old Bilton,
NOTES:
BIBLIOGRAPHY
Unleavened Bread:
Simple Verses, by Aura [Norman Gale].
Primulas and Pansies:
Simple Verses by the Author of Unleavened Bread [Norman Gale].
Marsh Marigolds, by
the Author of Primulas and Pansies [Norman Gale].
Meadowsweet, by the
Author of Marsh Marigolds [Norman Gale].
Anemones, a Collection
of Simple Songs from Unleavened Bread. [Norman Gale].
Thistledown: Essays
Whereof the Tale is Six. Penned in the Studies of Rusticus and One who is a
Friend of His. [Norman Gale and Charles H Meade].
Cricket Songs and
Other Trifling Verses, Penned by one of the Authors of ‘Thistledown’. [Norman
Gale].
Violets, by the Author
of Meadowsweet [Norman Gale].
Prince Redcheek. [Norman
Gale].
Gorillas. [Norman
Gale].
The Candid Cuckoo. [Norman
Gale]. Old Bilton.
A Country Muse. Norman
Gale.
A Country Muse. Norman
Gale. New Series.
Orchard Songs. Norman
Gale.
A
A Fellowship in Song.
Alfred Hayes, Richard Le Gallienne and Norman Gale.
A
A Country Muse. Norman
Gale. First Series.
A June Romance. Norman
Gale. [Privately Printed 1892.]
Cricket Songs. Norman
Gale.
On Two Strings.
Robinson K Leather and Norman Gale. Privately Printed.
A Country Muse. Norman
Gale. Second Series.
All Expenses Paid. Norman
Gale.
Holly and Mistletoe.
E. Nesbit, R. Le Galliene and N. Gale. Lord Marcus Ward. 1895.
Songs for Little
People. Norman Gale. [illustrated by Helen Stratton].
John Clare Poems,
Selected and Introduced by Norman Gale with a Bibliography by C. Ernest Smith.
Barty’s Star. Norman
Gale.
More Cricket Songs. Norman
Gale.
A Norman Gale
Treasury. Selected by Albert Broadbent.
Frolics in Catland.
Illustrations Louis Wain. Norman Gale. Raphael Tuck & Sons Ltd.
A Book of Quatrains. Norman
Gale. Old Bilton.
The Happy Family.
Illustrated by Louis Wain. Prose and verse, Norman Gale and others. Raphael
Tuck & Sons Ltd.
Father Tuck’s Annual.
Illustrated by Louis Wain. Prose and verse, Norman Gale and others. Raphael
Tuck & Sons Ltd.
Kits and Cats – With
Louis Wain in Pussyland. Illustrations Louis Wain. Norman Gale. Raphael Tuck
& Sons Ltd.
Cats of Many Lands.
Illustrations Louis Wain. Norman Gale. Raphael Tuck & Sons Ltd.
Song in September. Norman
Gale.
A Country Muse: A
Selection. Norman Gale. Grant Richards. 1912.
Solitude. Norman Gale.
Country Lyrics,
Selected from A Country Muse and Orchard Songs. Norman Gale. London. Harrap. 1913.
Collected Poems. Norman
Gale.
A Famouse Bookshop. Norman
Gale.
Curly Heads and Long
Legs. Stories by Edric Vrendenburg and Others, with 13 verses by Norman Gale.
Illustrations by Hilda Cowham. Raphael Tuck & Sons Ltd.
Music in Pussyland.
Illustrations Louis Wain. Norman Gale. Raphael Tuck & Sons Ltd.
Merry Times with Louis
Wain. Illustrations Louis Wain. Norman Gale. Raphael Tuck & Sons Ltd.
A Merry-Go-Round of
Song. Norman Gale. Old Bilton.
Such Fun.
Illustrations Louis Wain. Norman Gale. Raphael Tuck & Sons Ltd.
Play Fellows.
Illustrations Louis Wain and others. Norman Gale, Hilda Hart, Grace C Floyd.
Raphael Tuck & Sons Ltd.
Verse in Bloom. Norman
Gale. Old Bilton.
A Flight of Fancies. Norman
Gale.
Messrs Bat and Ball. Norman
Gale. Old Bilton.
Unpigeonholed. Norman
Gale. Bexhill on Sea. 1935.
Close of Play. Norman
Gale.
Remembrances. Denys
Heatherford [Norman Gale]. Torquay.
Love-In-A-Mist.
THE MYSTERIOUS
DISAPPEARANCE OF
EDMUND MARTIN GELDART
BY
BARRY VAN-ASTEN
The
At Reigate he attended
an Independent chapel while harbouring a deep ‘fear of hell’ yet, ‘no love of
God’ and ‘no sorrow for sin’ (‘A Son of Belial’. p. 53). Edmund attended the
Merchant Taylor’s School in
Geldart, who regarded
himself as an Evangelical, graduated from Balliol with his B.A. in 1867 (M.A.
1873) and took a teaching role at Manchester Grammar School and he seems to
have suffered in 1868 some sort of nervous breakdown and so he went to
recuperate in Corfu and spent three months in Athens. The account described in
‘A Son of Belial’ reveals something of Geldart’s mind at the time: ‘I had
forgotten for the time that the British schoolboy regards his schoolmaster as
his natural enemy; that he only respects the man who can and will thrash him;
that it is war to the knife, or at least to the cane, in the majority of cases,
until one or other is worsted. As I utterly and solemnly abjured the use of any
hostile weapon, and was, moreover, of an exceedingly sensitive and nervous
temperament, it is not, perhaps, much to be wondered at that in three days from
my assuming office I was utterly and completely unhinged and broken down. The
fiend like faces of my little tormentors (who meant no harm, God forgive them!)
danced before my eyes.’ (p. 193-194) Geldart goes on to tell us that he spent
three months undergoing the ‘torture of hydropathic treatment’ at Malvern. By
New Year he was feeling well enough to travel back home to Bowdon, Cheshire, before
embarking, in February, on the ‘
During 1869 he
was ordained deacon in the Anglican priesthood by the Bishop of Manchester, James
Prince Lee (1804-1869) and became curate of All Saints,
‘I suppose it was suicide’, writes Hopkins to
his friend Alexander W. M. Baillee (1843-1921) on 24th April 1885,
saying that ‘his mind, for he was a self tormentor, having been unhinged, as it
had been once or twice before, by a struggle he had gone through.’ Hopkins, who
heard of Geldart’s death in the 20th April edition of the Pall Mall
Gazette, is referring to Geldart’s previous nervous breakdown of 1868; Hopkins also
suffered from his own ‘struggles’ and thoughts of suicide, and he thought ‘A
Son of Belial’ an ‘amusing and sad book’ and perhaps it is no coincidence that
his darker poems such as ‘I wake and feel the fell of dark, not day’ were
composed during this period, but for Geldart, the struggles ended just three
years after ‘A Son of Belial’ was published which makes it all the more
poignant for the reader.
Many of the newspapers
carried the news of Geldart’s ‘Mysterious Disappearance’ such as ‘The
Manchester Weekly Times’, on page six of its Saturday 25th April
1885 edition which reports that the ‘Rev. Edward Martin Geldart, M.A. oxon, who
was until a fortnight ago the minister in charge of the Free Christian Church,
Wellesley Road, Croydon’ and who ‘formerly held a curacy in Liverpool – as an
English Churchman, but entertained broad views, he went over to the Unitarians,
and at the close of 1883 became the pastor of the above mentioned church.’ The
article goes on to say that ‘his opinions on many subjects were regarded as
strictly socialistic, and on many occasions he expounded those principles both
in lectures and in the columns of the local newspapers. In consequence of the
tone of his discourses he recently incurred the displeasure of his congregation
and was allowed by the committee to resign. This is said to have preyed on his
mind and owing to his depressed condition he was persuaded by his relations to
go on the Continent for a while.’ Geldart had decided on a Mediterranean
journey to visit
On Wednesday 15th
April Mrs Geldart set out on a search of the various places around the
south-coast to look for her husband but to no avail. She reported the
circumstances to Scotland Yard and on Friday 17th April she
travelled to
On the afternoon of
Saturday 18th April Mrs Geldart returned to Croydon from
And so the
disappearance of Edmund Martin Geldart will continue to remain a mystery.
NOTES ON THE EARLY YEARS OF
BETTY MAY – TIGER WOMAN
BY
BARRY VAN-ASTEN
‘My parents were nothing to brag about; they
were shiftless and now and then they drank. It was a handicap for me that was
balanced on the other side of the ledger, by a real asset. I was beautiful.’ (1)
Betty May’s volume of
autobiography ‘Tiger Woman’ (1929) is an interesting read which focuses on the
sensational aspects of her life but fails to give specific details of her
family during the early years of her upbringing; in this fact the book is quite
useless to historians who live and breathe data – names, dates and historical
facts. Little is given away in the book, even John Symonds sheds no new light
upon her, but she does give some tantalising clues as to their identities and being
fond of solving puzzles I thought it would be interesting to dig through some
skeletal remains and put some skin back on their bones! The first clue I had
was on the marriage certificate for Betty’s marriage to Frederick Charles
‘Raoul’ Loveday on 3rd September 1922 in Oxford where she states her
father’s name and profession as: ‘George Golding (deceased), Artist’; well, as
for his occupation she is half right for from reading her book ‘Tiger Woman’ he
seems rarely to be sober! In fact, she paints a bleak picture of her home life
in Tidal Basin, Limehouse, saying that her father left the family, wife and
four children, to fend for themselves – ‘even the law failed to extract from
him any contribution towards our support, although I believe he used to be sent
to prison at intervals for refusing to pay anything towards his family’s
upkeep.’ (2) She also mentions that her grandfather (George’s father)
was a ‘Police Inspector’ and so I was able to identify George and his father
from the census returns.
ROBERT GEORGE GOLDING
(1847-1917)
Betty May’s paternal
grandfather, Robert George Golding was born in 1847 in Purton, Wiltshire; the
son of Robert Golding (1815-1912) and Jane Ricks (1817-1906) a dressmaker who were
married in Cricklade in 1845, Robert had a sister named Elizabeth Mary Golding,
born 1851 in Cricklade and two brothers both born in Cricklade, Mortimer
Golding, born 1854 and John Golding, born 1856. Robert George Golding married
Maria Keep, born in 1845, Newbury village, Woolhampton, Berkshire, on 15th
April 1867 at St Pancras, London (3); Maria was the daughter of John
Keep, (1806-1874) born in Oxfordshire and Ellen Robbins, (1805-1888) born in
Berkshire who were married at St Peters, Woolhampton on 22nd June
1833; Maria’s siblings, all born Woolhampton, are: James Charles Keep
(1838-1898), Henry Keep (1840) who married Charlotte Brunsdon in 1860; William
Keep (1841-1898) who married Mary Jeffries in 1865 and John Keep (1844) who
married Esther Jane Laver in 1877 and had at least nine children.
JACK THE RIPPER
Betty fails to mention
in her book Tiger Woman the connection to Jack the Ripper! There was real fear
in Whitechapel during 1888 after the ‘Ripper murders’ became known and just
five weeks after the slaying of Mary Kelly on 9th November 1888, on
Thursday 20th December, Betty May’s grandfather, Police Sergeant
Robert George Golding (26K) is on his beat with Constable Thomas Costello (194K)
when at 4.14 a.m. Robert discovers the dead body of a woman in the yard between
184 and 186 Poplar High Street, called Clarke’s Yard, a builders- merchant; it
seemed at first sight to Sergeant Golding that the Ripper had struck again.
There were no visible marks to suggest murder, her throat had not been cut and
there were no obvious wounds. The woman, it turns out was a well-known local
Limehouse prostitute known as ‘Drunken Lizzie’; her name was Rose Mylett, born
in 1859 who had been seen on Wednesday evening just before 8 p.m. in Poplar
High Street near Clarke’s Yard talking to two men and later, on Thursday
morning around 2.30 a.m. quite drunk, outside the George on Commercial Road
with two men – it was the last time she was seen alive! The inquest was held
the next day on Friday 21st December by Wynne Baxter at Poplar Town
Hall (and again on 2nd and 9th January 1889) and although
a string mark was found around her neck suggesting strangulation it was not
contributed to be a Ripper murder and Robert Golding came to the same
conclusion.
Robert George Golding
joined the Police Force on
Robert and Maria Golding
had six children, all born at St Pancras: Maria Louisa Golding, born 9th
April 1868 (Christened 28th June 1868) (4), Ellen Golding
born 1870, George Golding, Betty May’s father, born 1871 (5), Florence
Golding, born 1872 (Christened 12th May 1872) [Florence married
James Malcolm, born 1873 in Canning Town, London, on 4th April 1896
in Whitechapel, they had a son named James Mortimer Malcolm, born 1897, Canning
Town, vol 4a p 131], Henry Golding born 1874 [Henry married Eliza James at St
Mary’s Church, Whitechapel on 23rd February 1896; Eliza died in
Lambeth aged 24 in 1899 (volume 1d page 212), Henry married again as a widow on
30th May 1903 in West Ham, Essex to Mary Stalham, (Marriage
April-June 1903, West Ham, volume 4a, page 286)] (6) and Edward Golding
born 1876 [Edward married Elizabeth Tuck at St Mary’s Church, Whitechapel on 10th
January 1897 and they had five children: Florence Elizabeth Golding (Poplar
1897, vol 1c p 654) she died in Poplar 1897; James Edward Golding (West Ham
1898, vol 4a p 167)James possibly died in Poplar in 1902; Harold Clement
Golding (West Ham 1901, vol 4a p 158), Harold died in Poplar in 1902 (vol 1c p
363); Albert Edward Golding, Poplar 1903, vol 1c p 628; Vera Golding (West Ham
1905, vol 4a p 292), Christened 12th March 1905].
In the 1871 census the
family are living in Gray’s Inn Lane, St Pancras; Robert George Golding is 25
and a ‘Police Constable’, Maria 25 and probably carrying their son, George;
Maria Louisa is 3 and Ellen is 1; with the family are Robert’s brother, John
Golding, 15 an ‘errand boy’ and Robert’s sister Elizabeth, 20 who is a
‘domestic servant’ (7). Ten years later in the 1881 census the family
are now living in Upper Gordon Road, Enfield, Middlesex – Robert George Golding
is 34 and an ‘Inspector of Police’, Maria 35, Maria Louisa is12, Ellen 11,
George 9, Florence 8, Henry 6 and Edward 5; living with the family is Maria’s
mother, Ellen Keep who is a widow of 78, and under occupation it states
‘Anuitant’ (8).
The 1891 census (9)
is very important because it contains another clue to Betty May’s parentage.
The Goldings are now living at number 1 Brunswick Street, Poplar, Tower
Hamlets, London and Robert George Golding is 44 and a ‘Retired Police
Sergeant’; Maria is 46, Maria Louisa is 22, single and living on her ‘own
means’; Betty May’s father, George is 19 and single and works as an ‘Iron
Plater’ on the ships; Florence is 18 and single, working as a ‘Packer in
Confectionary’; Henry is 16 and single working as a ‘Railway Van Guard’ and
Edward is 15 working as a ‘Labourer in Shipyard’. Also boarding with the
Goldings is Ellen James, a 19 year old single woman born in
ELLEN JAMES
In finding Ellen
James’s birth, she states on the 1891 census that she is born in London in 1872
so I checked a year either side (1871-73) for Ellen James born in the London
area, with the mother’s maiden name I then found the parent’s marriages and
located them on the census to 1) make sure I had the correct Ellen James and 2)
to see if either parent had French lineage which I did not find (12). It
is worth noting that many of the people on the census returns were illiterate,
many of them not knowing the correct year of birth, place of birth or even
their own name so one has to rely a little on intuition sometimes and errors
can occur!
Ellen James was born
in 1872 in Poplar (volume 1c page 729) [Mother’s maiden name ‘Abbott’]; she is
the first born of six children to Sarah Abbott (born Stepney 1852) and John
James who were married in Bethnal Green in 1870 (volume 1c page 604), the other
children are: Eliza James born Poplar 1873 (volume 1c page 679), John Henry
James born Poplar 1875 (volume 1c page 706) [he died in 1875], Henry James born
Poplar 1877 (volume 1c page 745) [died Poplar 1877], Mary Ann James born Poplar
1879 (volume 1c page 689) and John James born Poplar 1880 (volume 1c page 667).
I have found them in the census for 1881 living in Gaselee Street, Poplar, John
James is 37, a labourer born in Devon, Sarah is 30, Ellen 10, Eliza 8, Mary A.
3 and John not yet one year old (RG11 folio 510 page 30); in the previous
census of 1871 John, a 27 year old labourer and his 19 year old wife, Sarah,
are lodging in Poplar at the home of Jessie Emms, a 42 year old labourer born
in Poplar and his wife Mary and six children (Affiliate Image Identifier:
GBC/1871/0585/0200).
Betty May says in
Tiger Woman that her mother was ‘half French’ (p. 14) but I can find no
evidence of that.
Betty May also says
that she is one of four children born to George and her mother, and Betty was
born Bessie Golding in West Ham in 1894 (13); the other three children
born to George and Ellen Golding are: Ellen Golding, born 1891 in West Ham
(volume 4a page 65), George Golding born 1892 in Poplar (volume 1c page 650)
and Maria Golding, born 1896 in West Ham (volume 4a page 156). She paints a
terrible picture of her squalid conditions as a child and her father, George
seems to be a very unpleasant man - ‘if he saw a cat in the street he liked to
pick it up by its tail and crash out its brains against a wall’ (14).
In time, even her
mother, who had shown great strength in bringing up the children could not
handle Betty and her brother so they were sent to her fathers ‘with a note
explaining that henceforward we should have to live with him.’ (15)
Conditions at her father’s were even worse and there was no parental love and
by all accounts he seems to be living off immoral earnings and the place the
children are living in is a brothel. One day, a police man comes to the home
looking for George Golding – the police man turns out to be Robert George
Golding, Betty’s grandfather, come to arrest George Golding which indeed he
succeeds in doing and taken to the police station; the children, Bessie and her
brother George are also taken with them. This must have occurred around 1899 or
1900 presumably as Betty is still quite young and she remembers being in the
magistrate court and hearing the magistrate say, “And the little girl can go to
her grandmother’s”’ (16, meaning her paternal grandmother, Maria. But
shortly afterwards she is sent to live with ‘an aunt and her husband, with whom
I lived on a barge for the next few years.’ (17. The next we hear about
George Golding, according to Betty May is that he was ‘sentenced to two years’
imprisonment, after which he and his twin brother went out to
In searching for Betty
May and the next chapter of her life on a barge I turned to the 1901 census and
found a Bessie May, aged 6, born in Poplar living in Northfleet, Kent, with her
Uncle, William Walker, 46, born in Gravesend, Kent in 1855 (Christened 8th
August 1855) who works as a ‘Waterman’ and her Aunt, Eliza Walker, 45, born in
Limehouse, London in 1855 (20 Looking at the previous census for 1891
the Walkers were still in Northfleet, Kent, in Factory Road, and William is 36
and a ‘Bargeman’; Eliza is 35 and they have an 8 year old adopted child with
them named Eliza Philpot (born 1883 in Middlesex) (21; the child ‘Eliza’
was born Eliza Emily Philpot in Poplar in 1882 (volume 1c page 722) and her
mother’s maiden name is ‘Abbott’ – the little girl is actually the child of
Betty May’s great Aunt Fanny, Ellen James’s (later Golding) Aunt Fanny Abbott (born
Stepney 1854, volume 1c page 586); she married Stephen Walter Philpot, a
‘coppersmith labourer’ in Stepney in 1876 (volume 1c page 873) and they had two
children: Eliza Emily and Charles Philpot, born 1885 in Poplar (volume 1c page
645); in the 1881 census they are living in Naval Row, Poplar, Stephen is a
labourer and Fanny is 27 and with them are two children: Lily aged 3 and
William, not yet one year old, both born in Poplar (RG11 folio 509 page 122). Unfortunately
Fanny Philpot nee Abbott died in 1887 aged 33 in Poplar (volume 1c page 405)
and in the next census of 1891, Stephen, a widow aged 38 is still living in
Naval Row, Poplar with his daughter Lily E. aged 13 and two sons William H.
aged 10 and Charles aged 6 (RG12 folio 334 page 10). The child Eliza was
adopted by the Walkers [Fanny’s husband Stephen married a second time to
Elizabeth Dowley in Poplar in 1891 and the son Charles is with them in the 1891
census]. The connection to the Walkers is that Eliza Walker is Fanny’s younger
sister, Eliza Abbott born Stepney 1855 (volume 1c page 524) who married William
Walker in Mile End in 1882 (volume 1c page 994) and they seem to have had no
children of their own, so Eliza Philpot is actually Eliza Walker’s niece, and
Eliza Walker would have been Bessie Golding’s great Aunt, not her Aunt. The
1911 census (still in Northfleet) tells us that William is 56 and a ‘Bargeman’
in the Industry of Cement and Eliza is 55 (22.
As for Robert George
Golding and his wife Maria, it can be seen from the 1901 census that they are
living in St Stephens, Upton Park, East Ham, Essex, Robert is 54 and his
occupation since retiring from the Police is ‘Timekeeper at Warehouse’; Maria
is 56 and their son, Henry Golding, is 26 and a ‘Labourer in Shipyard’. Living
with them is Robert’s granddaughter, Gertrude Golding, 4 years old, born in
Battersea, London, who is Henry Golding’s daughter whom he is caring for, his
wife Eliza died two years previously [Henry will marry again in two years, 1903
to Mary Stalham] (23 Ten years later in the 1911 census Robert, 64, a
‘Police Pensioner’ and his wife, Maria, 66, are living in Tilehurst, Bradfield,
Berkshire. (24
Robert George Golding
died on
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